Prepare Your Preschooler for Christmas (Part 4): Jesus’ Birthday Party

By Rachel Tiemeyer


Here are Part 1: The Story of Mary and Joseph, Part 2: The Shepherds, Part 3: The Wise Men in this four-part series.

This final devotional is a bit different than the first three. For the last week of Advent, we spend our time reviewing the entire Christmas story and re-reading the stories from Part 1: Birth of Jesus, Part 2: The Shepherds, and Part 3: The Wise Men.

Then, my kids’ absolute favorite part of Christmas–which actually rivals the gifts if you can believe it–is preparing for and celebrating Jesus’ birthday with a party on Christmas night. Here’s what we’ve done since my first child was about two years old.

On Christmas Eve, I have my kids help me make THE BEST CHOCOLATE CAKE EVER by Ina Garten. If you read our blog, you know I’m a huge believer in feeding my family healthy foods. But, on Christmas, we CELEBRATE and indulge with great joy in this rich, decadent chocolatey cake every single year. It’s a little embarrassing how many pictures I’ve taken of this cake over the years.

Jesus' Birthday Cake

It takes about 2 hours to make from start to finish, so be sure to carve out some time if you give it a go. You may also want to use all decaf coffee in the recipe, since you’d probably prefer that your kids (who have been up since 5 a.m.) will go to bed at a decent hour.


As my 2-year-old daughter (at the time this older pic was taken) demonstrated, my kids line up and eye the cake for a good 24 hours before it’s time to partake. Oh the anticipation.

jesus' birthday cake

Then I have the littles help me decorate the cake for Jesus on Christmas Day. As you can see, all you need are some sprinkles, a little icing, and a few candles. My son told me last year that we needed over 2,000 candles, but we opted for just a few representative ones since we decided that Jesus is eternal. 😉

By Christmas night, they can wait no longer. So, right after dinner, we sing “Happy Birthday” to Jesus and eat cake in his name. I hope we do this until the day I die! It’s such a precious time together.

Jesus' Birthday Cake

Each year, while we eat cake, we read the Christmas story from the Bible or last year we read a spectacular book called Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones. Please, please buy this for your family if you have younger kids. I plan to keep this one for my grandchildren.

Song of the Stars: A Christmas Story

This beautifully illustrated read-aloud “refreshes the Nativity story by placing it in the context of the animal kingdom, and not just the familiar sheep and cows at the stable. White whales sing, salmon leap, every single blade of grass around the world “squeak and hum” the news of the coming of “the One who made us,” says the publisher’s description. Here’s a preview of this book…

Last year we had the cousins over and all sang to Jesus, ate cake and enjoyed Song of the Stars together.


Merry Christmas to you and your family. I will pray that you will all know him more this Christmas season and rejoice in the gift God sent us on Christmas Day!


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